#231 | Relationship Playfulness: The Key to Lasting Love

In this episode, I'm diving into something that's absolutely crucial for keeping your relationship vibrant and alive - playfulness! While we're naturally playful during courtship, many couples lose that spark once they settle into the routine of committed life. But here's the thing - playfulness isn't about expensive vacations or grand gestures; it's about using your imagination to create magical moments in everyday life.

In this episode, you'll discover:

- Why maintaining playfulness is vital for long-term relationship satisfaction, and how the "functionality trap" can slowly drain the joy from your partnership

- Simple, practical ways to inject spontaneity into your relationship - from impromptu dance sessions to surprise love notes (even if being playful doesn't come naturally to you)

- How committed relationships can actually become a safe space for exploring new sides of yourself and taking chances with your partner

Here's something I've noticed in my years as a marriage therapist: I've never seen a couple's relationship get worse from adding more playfulness - it always improves! Whether you're naturally playful or not, this episode will give you actionable ways to bring more joy, spontaneity, and connection into your relationship, even on a regular Tuesday at 6 PM.

Join me as we explore how to keep that playful spark alive in your relationship. Because remember, we're not just making relationships work - we're making them thrive with love, connection, and yes, a healthy dose of fun!

Time Line:

00:00 The importance of playfulness in relationships

00:39 Why couples become too functional

01:16 Using imagination to create playful moments

02:25 Making playfulness a daily priority

03:21 How committed relationships can liberate us

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Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd is a relationship expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.

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